Case Study Results #3

What problems were you facing before?
After 11 years of marriage, it felt like we’d never made it past the first month. We had been through so much I had no idea if we were together because of love or a trauma bond/codependent issue. I was so shut down I never wanted to be intimate with him ever again. I didn’t know what was wrong, I just knew it was a shitty relationship and I didn’t know if I wanted it to get better or be over.

What was this costing you?
EVERYTHING! No matter how hard I tried to succeed at anything in life I’d eventually just shut down because the most important thing in my life, my marriage, felt worthless. I felt worthless. I didn’t value myself at all, which made it impossible to ask clients to pay me a livable amount. I felt like all my dreams were impossible. I was a yes woman who was trying to find value in what other people thought of me and I was miserable 😭 .

How did the LOVE ENERGY course help you solve your problem?
First and most importantly it helped me see what love truly is, and taught me HOW to love myself. Nobody can love you more than you love yourself, and your capacity to feel love comes from within yourself, not from a feeling others try to make you feel. Now I know how to feel true love whenever I want and can freely give myself what I need. I also know that nobody else can love me more than they love themselves (it goes both ways). Now I’m only willing to consider relationships with others who are coming from that place themselves. I also found that I was terrified of the truth and had been lying to myself to justify staying in a relationship that made everyone miserable. I get stuck because I wasn’t allowing myself to consider ending the relationship. It’s still scary as hell to go through a divorce, but since I made the decision it’s been so liberating! I can finally feel a deep peace that I’d never known before. I can trust myself, and I can trust others and let them in instead of fearfully keeping myself hidden at all costs. I’m stepping forward towards everything I’ve ever dreamed of, and it wouldn’t have been possible without Love Energy!

Love energy- my energy had been completely depleted. I never knew how to love myself- I didn’t even know what that meant.

Now it’s a pivotal part of my life to keep my love energy strong 💪

Case Study Results #2

What problems were you facing that caused you to look into coaching?
I was finding that I was continually dating the same kinds of men who all had some sort of problem that I subconsciously tried to “fix”.  I didn’t know why I was attracting these men but knew that my confidence was often times tied up in how good I could make them feel rather than how I felt about myself.  If they were upset I made it my problem.  For this reason, I was also having a hard time letting go of my “savior’s complex” and the idea that if I was good enough, it would solve all the issues that we had.  I looked into coaching to figure out what I was doing to enable the behavior of these men because I wanted to stop it so that I could attract a man who would cherish all the effort and loyalty I have to offer.
What was this costing you?
My savior’s complex was costing me all my relationships and it was making me doubt myself and my own self-worth.  I wasn’t happy.  I was stressed out, tired and frustrated with my lack of progress despite what I felt were my best efforts.  I was suspicious of other women and was dealing with jealousy because I didn’t recognize and appreciate my own value and what I have to offer people.
How did the Love Energy course help you solve your problem?
It’s taught me to let go of the past and focus on myself and what makes me happy.  It’s taught me to look more positively at the future knowing that I have some good tools now that will help me navigate the situations that will come in the future.  I’ve learned to stand up for myself in a respectful way and do the things that I know are good for me because I can’t help anyone if I don’t first help myself.  I’ve learned to take responsibility for my actions rather than blaming the people around me for the things that have happened in my life.  I am now optimistic about my future and I believe that I can manifest wonderful things, as I practice gratitude daily.

Case Study Results #1

What problems where you facing that caused you to look into coaching?

I was dealing with constant fighting with my husband. Moving in and out of the house back and forth. And the fights were horrible. We couldn’t come to terms with many things and instead of knowing how to handle them, they escalated into bad fights that started turning physical. We have a daughter together and I wasn’t sure what to do or where to turn. Every time we fought, I lost myself and turned into this crazy person that had severe anxiety attacks. I left him and I didn’t know how to even be able to function on my own. I didn’t know what to do and honestly, I didn’t know how to survive with or without him.

My problem was also greater than my relationship. I had issues for years that I was dealing with as well. Like insecurities and an inability to not be able to depend on someone emotionally. I have dealt with similar relationships for a very long time.

What was this costing you?

My problem was costing me time, happiness, my family, joy of being with my children. I was unable to focus on my job, my career, and basically everything. I was in a dark cloud and I wasn’t able to see beyond it. I had extreme anxiety. I felt so lost. I was so desperate for someone else to save me before… because I didn’t want to save myself.

How did the LOVE ENERGY course help you solve your problem?

The program allowed me to see inside myself, where I have been, and what made me think so poorly of myself by allowing me to accept negativity into my life. I had low self esteem and was unable to be independently happy “all on my own”. Through the program, I was able to see what made me happy and that I can have the life I deserve. My thoughts were so negative, pushing blame on everyone for all these bad things and I learned how to realize that every bad thing brought me something wonderful. I developed accountability for where I am and what has happened in my past, it taught me what to accept and what I deserve. It taught me about the power of the universe, manifesting wonderful things, being grateful, believing and saying things that changed my mindset and made me realize everything was going to be okay. It taught me how to let go of things from my past that tore me apart inside, and be able to let go of it.

My life has come back because I can smile again and be happy all on my own. I am able to deal with difficult situations knowing it will be okay, knowing I am deserving of wonderful things, and I won’t settle for less than what I deserve. I never was my own person. I always became what someone else wanted me to be to make them happy. Now I know what makes me happy and every day I find ways to further develop who I am meant to be. A problem that I felt was relationship deep, showed me in much greater detail, not only why I wasn’t happy, but it gave me the tools to work on me every day and be happy in every aspect of my life.